Friendship Center’s Hot Meals Build a Community United Around a Weekly Menu

Guest blog post by Deborah Cohen, volunteer and Board Member

It’s 5:30 p.m., 30 minutes before opening, and the line for takeout is snaking down the block. The crowds are eager to sample the evening’s menu of chicken curry with fresh peach chutney, rice and broccoli.

The purveyor of this destination is not a food truck or restaurant pop-up—it’s the increasingly popular hot meal program offered weekly by The Friendship Center. Begun in 2018, the program now offers portable meals every Thursday night from 6:00 to 7:30 p.m. to 260 clients on average at the Center’s 2711 W. Lawrence Ave. location. In recent weeks, the program has served 320 or more meals in a single evening.

Matthew Williams visiting the Friendship Center for a hot meal.

“This is important,” says Matthew Williams, 42, a client and North Side resident, who was once unhoused for five years. He is a fan of the Center’s chicken meals. “This is what they need to keep,” he adds. “No one should go hungry.”

Williams is part of a diverse community of clients, many repeat participants, who are willing to line up weekly to receive balanced meals they say are convenient, nutritious, and readily available, no questions asked. 

Beyond a love of the carefully prepared food, demand for the fresh meals is increasing due to economic pressures. Those include rising inflation on household staples such as food and gasoline, as well as recent cuts to the government’s Supplemental Nutrition Assistance Program, or SNAP, the longstanding federal food assistance program.

Every meal is an opportunity to care for one another, nourish our neighbors and remind everyone that they have a place at our table,” says Nadia Jimenez, executive director. 

Behind the scenes

Preparation for the weekly menu begins two days ahead of service, requiring careful planning and a team of staff and volunteers both to cook the food and hand it to clients as they come through the line. 

A neighbor favorite this summer: Breakfast for dinner

At the program’s core are staff members Mateo Reynaud, 22, and Bree Perry, 27. Both had experience in professional kitchens prior to joining the Center, and both are, incidentally, members of Chicago’s trans community. They say being part of that minority group has helped to inform their mindset in the center’s tiny kitchen, ensuring they create a welcoming environment for volunteers, while creating meals that acknowledge the wide-ranging culinary backgrounds of clients.

“We try to do what we know people will enjoy,” says Reynaud, programs manager, who grew up in New Orleans and was exposed to that city’s renowned cuisine. Feedback from volunteers and clients is important, he says, noting that family recipes from volunteers have made their way onto the menu. 

“We have the basics of really good food here,” says Perry, programs and volunteer coordinator, adding that the team is tasked with creating meals primarily from ingredients donated to the pantry. She was particularly proud of a recent meal whose cost was 6 cents per plate—just $20 to serve about 300 people.

Perry has been pushing to up the kitchen skills for regular volunteers, recently offering knife skills training from professional chefs. She and her colleagues have also set up important partnerships, such as with Love Fridge Chicago, which distributes the Center’s leftover meals to others in need.

The Center’s holistic approach resonates with volunteers like Zack Kam, 36, who was recently working a nine-week stint in the kitchen to help fulfill a community service requirement.

From left to right: Volunteer Leo M, summer intern Abbey, and staff member Bree Perry serving hot meals and snacks to neighbors.

“I like the mission,” Kam says. Working in the hot meal program has put him in touch with “all sorts of cool people – a lot of young people, people a lot older.” 

And while these operational nuances are important to those creating the meals, they may go unnoticed by the program’s loyal clients whose takeaways are good food and a sense of belonging. That is true for Linda Smith, 60, who works in south suburban schools with special needs children and travels up from the South Side to partake in both the food pantry and the hot meal program.

 “Sometimes I get here, and I’m so tired,” she says. “But this is so special.”

Five Ways To Fight Hunger

Every September, organizations fighting hunger come together to raise national awareness and encourage communities to take action to end hunger. 

Here are some practical ways you can take action this month. 

  1. Learn the Latest Facts About Hunger
    Food insecurity is a problem for 47 million people in the United States and 70,000 people in our 10 mile service area around The Friendship Center. 
    How many people in your community are facing hunger today? Check out Feeding America’s Map the Meal Gap tool to inform yourself about food insecurity around you. 
  1. Share About People Facing Hunger With the People Around Your Table
    Engage with the people at your dinner table, whether it be your family, friends, roommates, or neighbors, about our nation’s issue with food insecurity. We’ll share insights and education on our newsletter and social platforms about people facing hunger throughout the month. 

If you have children in your household, it is important to share about people facing hunger and help them build empathy for their neighbors who are food insecure. Help your family visualize hunger by using the following prompt:

  • What does it feel like to be hungry?
  • What would you do if you couldn’t eat for a whole day? 
  • What things might be harder to do while hungry?

Work together to draw or write a story of someone who is facing hunger. If more direction is needed, ask a question, such as: How would you feel if you had to go the entire school year without breakfast or lunch?

  1. Volunteer at Your Local Food Pantry
    You can volunteer a few hours each week and play a critical role in ending hunger for your neighbors. Some volunteer activities include sorting, bagging, distribution, client intake, dinner prep, cooking, packing meals to go, and home delivery. Additionally, volunteers are needed to help work special events like the Farmer’s Market, Oktoberfestiversary, Mayfestiversary, etc. We have a role for any level of skillset and availability. 

 Sign up for volunteer opportunities at The Friendship Center on our website. 

  1. Organize a Food Drive
    The number of people facing hunger in our community has grown this summer. Hosting a food drive helps keep our shelves stocked with non-perishable food and hygiene supplies. The process is simple, fill out our food drive form to get started. 
  1. Donate to End Hunger

Our neighbors rely on your generosity and partnership to foster hope and dignity through access to food and vital resources. $50 a month can feed a family of four and this month you can double your impact* thanks to a generous matching fund from neighborhood hunger fighters.

*All donations up to $5,000 will be doubled this month!

How To Start a Food Drive

Organizing a food drive can be simple and fun. Pick out a time frame to collect donations and pick a way to motivate your community to join you. Here are some ideas on how to start one.

  • Have your community drop off donations at your home.
  • Partner with your school to be a drop-off point for donations.
    You can borrow our food drive barrels to make the collection easier. 
  • Instead of asking for birthday presents, ask for donations for your food drive. 
  • Organize a food drive with your office. 
  • Ask a local grocery store to host our food drive barrels. 
  • Ask your place of worship to collect items during the holiday season. 

There are many more creative ways to host a food drive. 

Help your community understand what types of items to donate. Here is the list of what our neighbors commonly request:

  • Rice
  • Cooking oil
  • Peanut butter
  • Jelly
  • Soy sauce
  • Easy to cook pre-made meals
  • Canned meats
  • Stews
  • Soups
  • Diapers
    Personal hygiene products

When thinking about what to donate, please keep in mind if you wouldn’t give it to a friend, we shouldn’t give it to our neighbors. 

Lastly, pick a day you can bring the donations to The Friendship Center. 

Here is when we are open to accept donations:
Monday: 2 – 4 p.m.
Tuesday: 3 – 7 p.m.
Wednesday: 10 a.m. – 4 p.m.
Thursday: 2 – 7 p.m.
Friday: 2 – 6 p.m.
Saturday: 10 a.m. – 1 p.m.

If you have any questions before you get started, please call us at 773.907.6388 or email info@friendshipcenterchicago.org. We cannot accept food that is left outside.

Thanks for fighting hunger by feeding your neighbors.

Download our food drive toolkit to save this information for later.

Why Does Food Rescue Matter?

“I have some crates of milk  for you that we have too much of this week .” Brandon, the milkman, at our neighborhood Mariano’s is eager to provide our neighbors with the excess stock his store receives. 

Seth, our driver, visits stores throughout the city each morning to rescue excess food. From baked bread, vegetables, milk, eggs, meat, and everything in between, food rescued from grocery stores feeds our neighbors. 

Food rescue also creates a more sustainable supply chain. Grocers can forecast supply and demand at different times of the year however there is always some food that goes unsold. When stores donate fresh food and non-perishable items to The Friendship Center, they are eliminating excess food waste. 

“According to ReFED, 35% of food, or 80.6 million tons, goes uneaten or unsold in the United States – and most of that goes to waste.” (Feeding America, 2023). 

Food waste can also happen because of cosmetic issues like the item is too long, discolored, or oddly shaped, and retailers do not want to carry those items.

Additionally, the packaging could be mislabeled and missing the allergen information, so the items aren’t able to be sold in stores. Our network partner, Feeding America, is the only FDA-trusted organization with the ability to relabel food so that allergies can properly be listed and items can be donated to people facing hunger. 

Many manufacturers produce different types of products using the same machinery. It’s almost impossible to have some items not turn out correctly. For example, a plant that packages crunchy and creamy peanut butter will inevitably have a few batches that mix creamy and crunchy due to switching the type of consistency during production. Retailers do not want to carry these items as it can decrease customer satisfaction.

Cosmetic issues do not make food inedible. The network of food banks and pantries across the country can rescue these items from farmers, manufacturers, and retailers and redistribute them to the community. 

Check out this challenge from Feeding America to see if you can spot which food items would end up in a landfill instead of the grocery store. 

As a community, The Friendship Center partners with our neighborhood grocers to prevent healthy and fresh food from ending up in the trash and instead go to people who need it but cannot afford it. In the last twelve months we have rescued more than 500,000 lbs of wholesome food. To put that into perspective that is about a month of meals for 463 people! 

We are grateful to partner with Jewel #3262, Jewel #1282, Jewel #3442, Mariano’s #522, Mariano’s #515, Tony’s Fresh Market #567, Tony’s Fresh Market #1167, GoPuff #1, and Costco. We also continue to add new partnerships that will support our neighbors.

During Hunger Action Month we encourage you to fight hunger by partnering with us. $50 a month can feed a family of four and this month you can double your impact* thanks to a generous matching fund from John and Erin Telford. 

*All gifts up to $3,000 will be matched.